1 Corinthians 15:51-59
The Mystery Revealed
Funeral Sermon for Brenden Pendleton
April 28, 2016
Family and friends of Brenden. Grace, mercy, and peace to you from God our Father and our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
We are here today in shock over the sudden death of Brenden. No one could have expected to be here today for this reason. It was unexpected, tragic, that at 35 years old, he would be dead. We are left with questions which we cannot answer. Questions of why and what for and what now. And we are left with a mystery as to the answer.
Now, I like a good mystery. I didn’t know Brenden, but I would guess that he was one of those guys who felt the same way. His love for adventure is a love for mystery. What is out there, what new experiences, joys, hardships. That pioneer attitude, always ready to explore uncharted territories and expand horizons for everyone.
There is mystery here. The mystery of why this happened, of what could have been. You all may be plagued for a long time with such questions. I cannot help but think of what the King Solomon in the Old Testament felt and wrote in Ecclesiastes 4:1-3, “Again I saw all the oppressions that are done under the sun. And behold, the tears of the oppressed, and they had no one to comfort them! On the side of their oppressors there was power, and there was no one to comfort them. And I thought the dead who are already dead more fortunate than the living who are still alive. But better than both is he who has not yet been and has not seen the evil deeds that done under the sun.”
At times like these it is easy to feel this way. Pessimistic, depressed, angry, worried. What’s the point of this death? What’s the point of life if it can just be snatched away so quickly, so unexpectedly, so easily?
And there’s another mystery we’re faced with it, but this one also has an answer by God. St Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 15, “Behold, I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall be changed. In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed.”
You see, we may never know the answer to “why” this happened. But we do have the answer to a more important question, that is, what is God going to do about it? And the answer to that lies with Jesus, who was crucified, died and was buried. And He was raised from the dead, victorious over the grave.
Because Jesus lives, that is our hope and our comfort, and even dare I say, our joy in the midst of our tears today. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”
No matter what we say, no matter how many hugs or memories shared, nothing can make up for a death. Nothing you do can bring Brenden back into your lives. He won’t get to be the father to his children that he most surely wanted to be. He won’t get use that charm of his to help others in times of need, encouraging them. And you, his family and friends, will miss him. There is no good, no comfort, no peace, with death, but there is all of those things and more in that death, Brenden’s death has been defeated. Death has been swallowed up in victory, the victory of the cross of Jesus. That is the only lasting source of comfort and hope in the midst of things we cannot understand.
Jesus says that He is the way, the truth, and the life. Without Jesus, this life and the answers to real and practical questions of why, what does this all mean, how can I go on, remain an undiscoverable mystery to us. Sure, we can guess, and stumble along, but when push comes to shove, where do we really stand, and where do we fall? You don’t have to stumble around in dark. You don’t have to treat life as a big mystery. Because God has given an answer to the world’s pain, to your pain, to your sadness, to your tears.
The answer to that is Jesus Christ, who was crucified, is raised from the dead. When fear and doubt and worry attack us, what is God’s answer to such problems? “Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified, He is risen.” When there’s terror of our guilt and shame because of sin, how is our fear chased away? “Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified, He is risen.” When we question whether our faith is real, or good enough, what’s the answer? “Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified, He is risen.” When you have uncertainty about obstacles in the future that seem too large for us roll away ourselves? “Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified, He is risen.” Fear of not being in control or not understanding what is going on around us? “Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified, He is risen.” Death and a cold grave approach quickly and without mercy? “Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified, He is risen.”
Thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.